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The Bible Study Chapter 10
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| Song - IF YOU ONLY KNEW
I would always wait For the perfect time But now the time Has come and gone I hold on to the memories As though were still together Longing for the strength to carry on Ever since youve been gone chorus Theres no day that goes by I dont think of you and ask (God) why? I wont get the chance To tell you good-bye And how much I lost losing you If you only knew Life has many pages Some we wrote together A story must end alone As I go on without you Youll live with me forever Knowing that someday well meet again Up where the rainbows end [repeat chorus]
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Common Ground
When youre on the battlefield, it always helps to be in a foxhole with someone wearing the same uniform as you. Theres a sense of camaraderie, a sense of fellowship that comes with being on the same team. Despite the soldiers differences back home, on the battlefield the differences are laid aside in order to fight together. What they had in common far out weighed their differences. Isnt it amazing that two people who are total opposites can sit beside one another at a college football game and by the end of the game be acting like best friends? Thats because theyve found a "common ground" between them - something that bonds them together. But when you think about it, isnt that what makes two people friends? Friends are people who share something in common, such as: similar likes, dislikes, beliefs, tastes in music, sports, clothes and hobbies. Friends usually (though not always) attend the same school and many times have classes together. On the whole, people make friends with others who are like themselves in some way. We like people who are like us. But when it comes to the world, as a Christian, you really dont have that much in common with non-Christians. Other than a few hobbies and interests, there is actually very little about you that is similar to an unbeliever. Take a look at 2 Corinthians 6:14-17 and write down as many differences between a Christian and a non-Christian.
What is Pauls conclusion? (v. 17) ____________________________________________ Thats why God says to be a friend with the world means you are an enemy of God (James 4:4). But even as Christians, we have many differences between us, dont we? Can you think of what some of these might be? But dont let these differences discourage you. Even the 12 disciples and the first Christians had huge differences between them. There were obstacles to overcome that make our modern-day differences seem trivial by comparison. For example, some of the differences between those in the early church were: Jews and Gentiles Jews and Samaritans Slaves and Freemen Slaves and Masters Males and Females Government Officials and Political Zealots The very poor and the very rich Those who were educated and those who had no education Pharisees and former harlots In the early church, there were different races, different upbringings, different political persuasions, different social statuss, different levels of education and different religious backgrounds. And yet the one thing they shared in common above everything else was their faith in Jesus Christ. That one thing caused them to look beyond all their differences to become friends in Christ.
If we only knew, right? Sometimes our difference between each other can bring confusion, too. We fail to see the real purpose for our relationships because we cant see past our differences. But in reality, you share many things in common with your fellow Christians. You share the: Same Body Same Spirit Same Lord Same Faith Same Baptism, and the Same God (Ephesians 4:4-6) But you also share with them the same purpose in life (I Corinthians 10:31), the same mission (Matthew 28:18-20) and the same destiny (Revelation 21:1-4). So why do we always focus on our differences instead of our similarities? In thinking about your Christian friends, list a few of the differences there are between you and them. Which one is the most difficult for you to overcome? ___________________________________________________________________________ Decide in your heart that, as far as it depends on you, you will not allow those differences to drive a wedge between you and them. Remember, youre wearing the same uniform! Summary - The most important thing about my Christian friendships is that we share a common faith in Jesus Christ.
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Stay Close Together!
Sometimes it takes a crisis to realize how much we really need each other. Too often, many Christians think they can weather the storms of life alone. Unfortunately, there are too many "Lone Ranger" Christians, believing they can make it by themselves in the world and in the Christian life. They fail to understand that unless we draw close to one another, well freeze to death out there! But just why do we need one another so much? What is it that we can provide for one another as Christians? Why are our Christian friendships so important? Look up the following verses and see if you can discover what Christians can do for one another and why we need each other so much. Hebrews 3:13 ___________________________________ This means to "build someone up" with your words and deeds. Romans 15:1 ___________________________________ Ephesians 4:11-12 ________________________________ Colossians 4:2-3 _______________________________ I John 1:7 ______________________________________ I John 4:7 ______________________________________ Do you honestly think you could survive spiritually without these things from your brothers and sisters in Christ? Just think of your need for other Christians like the following: ___ What a sky-diver needs. a. golf clubs ___ What a scuba-diver needs. b. an instrument ___ What a soldier needs. c. water ___ What a skier needs. d. another Christian ___ What a pilot needs. e. a spaceship ___ What a swimmer needs. f. a parachute ___ What an astronaut needs. g. an airplane ___ What a musician needs. h. skis ___ What a golfer needs. i. a hammer ___ What a carpenter needs. j. air-tanks ___ What a Christian needs. k. a gun Psychologists have discovered that if you put a child in isolation without human touch, that child will eventually die. Why? Because God created us with a natural need to depend on others. Its just a law of life that people need people to survive. And this is especially true of Christians. Living your life without having close Christian friends is like walking on a high-wire without a net - one slip and youre history. You need others to encourage you and keep you strong in Christ. Looking back to the reasons why believers need one another, which one of them would you say your Christian friends do for you the most? __________________ Which one of them do feel a need for right now? ________________________ Which one can you improve upon in your own life today? ________________________ Summary - I desperately need my Christian family in order to survive.
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A Place Called "Heaven"
Have you ever thought about what happens to Christians when they die? Have you ever wondered about Heaven and the "hereafter"? Have you ever asked, What will Heaven be like? Will I sit on a cloud and play a harp? Who will be there? Will there be sports? Will there be animals? Will I ever be sad there? Will I really have a mansion? Will I see God? Will I recognize people? What will I do there? Will we see whats happening in earth? Will I get to ask God any question I want? What age will I be in Heaven? What will I look like?" Just what do we know about Heaven? Why not let Jesus Himself tell you about Heaven? In John 14:1-6, Jesus dropped some pretty heavy hints about what Heaven is like to His disciples. Through Him, we learn several important facts about Heaven. Looking at Jesus words closely, see if you can fill in the following blanks concerning Heaven: FACT #1 - Heaven is a real _________ (2) FACT #2 - In Heaven, Jesus is now ___________ a place for me (2-3) FACT #3 - Heaven is where _______ is (3) FACT #4 - The only way to Heaven is through __________ (4-6) Though Jesus doesnt say it in this passage, we know from other Scripture that in Heaven there will be no sickness, suffering, sadness, sin, pain, worry, crying, or death (Revelation 21:4).
Listen. Heaven is your home. This earth is just a gloried hotel. The road you travel has a final destination. Your journey has an end. One day, you will go straight to your Heavenly home with no stops in-between. Your ticket has been purchased by Christ on the cross. Heaven will be a place that has been prepared for you by Jesus Himself. And your Heavenly Father will be waiting on you at the end of your journey. With Him will be all those who have made the journey ahead of you. Whats the one thing about Heaven you are looking forward to experiencing? ___________________________________________________________________ Its never easy to say good-bye to someone you love. Whether one of you is moving away or someone close to you has died and gone on to Heaven - it is never easy. But remember, Christians never really say "good-bye". They just say "so long". Is there someone youve lost that youre longing to see in Heaven? __________________ Remember, youll see them again . . . up where the rainbow ends. Summary - One day I will be re-united with my loved ones in Heaven.
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You Dont Know What Youve Got Until . . .
What a fitting illustration for us as Christians. God brings people into our lives and many times we fail to appreciate them for who they are until theyre gone. Isnt it strange that we wait until someones funeral to say really nice things about them? It seems that when a person is gone - moves away or dies - we suddenly realize how much they meant to us. Unfortunately, it is only then that we recognize their worth and value to us as well as their contribution to our lives. So why not change all that and start appreciating those around you now instead of when theyre gone? Take a look at how Paul practiced this kind of gratefulness in his life. Look up the following verses and see what He said about his friends and why he said he was so thankful for them. What He Said Why He Said It Romans 1:8 ______________________ ______________________ Philippians 1:3,5-7 ______________________ ______________________ Colossians 1:3-5 ______________________ ______________________ I Thessalonians 1:2-6 ______________________ ______________________ Paul was a very busy man. He traveled a lot and had a lot of responsibility. And yet he always found time to sit down and write a letter or note to those he loved, telling them how much he appreciated them. How do you think it made Pauls friends feel when they received these letters of praise and encouragement? __________________________________________________________ What do you think it did for their relationship? Theres an old saying, "You dont know what youve got until its gone." Theres something about losing things that makes you want them more. For example, you dont know how much: your freedom means to you . . . until . . . youre grounded for the weekend. your car means to you . . . until . . . your parents take away the keys. your health means to you . . . until . . . you get sick riding on a bus. your complexion means to you . . . until . . . you break out right before a big date! your best friend means to you . . . until . . . you find out his family is moving. your money means to you . . . until . . . you realize youre broke! your playing time means to you . . . until . . . youre benched! your music means to you . . . until . . . your stereo finally breaks down So its really true that "You dont know what youve got until its gone". Though its is not a pleasant thought, have you ever pictured what your life would be like without those closest to you, like your parents, relatives or best friends? When is the last time you thanked: your parents for all they do for you? your Pastor for all his hard work? your Youth Pastor for his ministry to you? your Christian friends for being an encouragement to you? your grandparents for their love for you? your Sunday School teachers or other church leaders for teaching you? your brothers or sisters for putting up with you? Who is there in your life that you have taken for granted? Write down a few of their names and then jot down one or two reasons why they mean so much to you. Name He/She means a lot to me because: ____________________ - ________________________________________________ ____________________ - _______________________________________________ ____________________ - ________________________________________________ As a way to help you put Gods Word into practice, why not write a short note to each of these people, expressing your gratefulness to God for them? Summary - I need to cherish my friends and family now while I have them.
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Taming the Wild Beast
Such is the awesome power of the wind. But the Bible talks about something that has even more power than a terrible twister or a hurricane. Its something that can bring more devastation into a life than any storm of nature. In fact, its so powerful that nations have fallen because of it. Homes have been wrecked from its deadly force. Relationships have been destroyed due to its awesome abilities. Lives have been ruined because of its fury. It is a force of nature so uncontrollable that no one has yet been able to find a way to tame it. And unlike a hurricane, its wrath is totally unpredictable. So what is this dreaded creature? Look up James 3:7-8 and find out. Now that you know what it is, see what you can find out about it in verses 2-12. What is the tongue compared to in the following verses? Verse 3 - __________________ Verse 4 - __________________ Verses 5-6 - _________________ One spark of fire can destroy an entire forest. And one word can start a "fire" in a friendship or a family, igniting a blaze that can destroy a persons self-worth. Whoever said "sticks and stones will break my bones but words can never harm me" was dead wrong! Words dont break bones. They break hearts! How else does James describe the tongue? (vv. 7-8) ______________________________ Think about it. He is saying that you would have a better chance in taming a wild lion than you would have taming your tongue! Why do you think words are such a powerful influence on your life? _________________ ______________________________________________________ Sometimes we throw our tongues into high gear before our heads can catch up with it. Remember, every time you open your mouth, you show whats in your heart. Your words can hurt or they can heal. They can harm another person or they can be used to help them. When you cut someone else down with your words, its usually so you can feel better about yourself. When you speak a word to someone, you can never get them back. So make sure you mean what you say and that what you say is good. A good rule to live by is to talk about other people the way you would want them to talk about you.
So it is with our tongues. If our "rudder" is damaged, then our "ship" will sink. A "damaged" tongue is one that uses unkind words or profanity. Its a tongue that tears people down instead of building them up. And nowhere does that have more of a devastating effect than it does with those we love. Yesterday you learned about appreciating the ones who are closest to you. You found out how you could show your gratitude to them. One way to do that is through your daily conversation with them. Keep in mind, that your words can be medicine or they can be poison. If someone paid you 10 dollars for every kind word you spoke over the next 6 months but collected from you 5 dollars for every unkind word you spoke, would you be rich or poor at the end of that time? What final point does James make about the tongue in verses 9-12? ____________________________________________________________________ What do you think is the key to taming your tongue? _____________________________ Summary - I need to allow Christ to control my tongue so that I speak kind words to others.
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Dont Stop Now!
There are a lot of similarities between that plane and some Christians - theyre real impressive on the outside, but when put to the test, they dont last very long. Theyre up in the air only for what seems like a few short seconds, and then theyre back in the water again. Their Christianity just doesnt last. Their faith "fizzles". They begin well, but like that plane, they cant sustain the altitude for long. And why not? Too much pull from the earth below and not enough power from the engine within. But thats not what you want to happen, right? Youve spent 44 days devoting yourself to a personal relationship with God through His Word. And you dont want it to stop here, do you? You want to go on. To stay "airborne". To be a long-term Christian. So how can you do that? Jesus told His disciples a parable in Mark 4:1-9 about four kinds of "soils", which represent four different hearts and their spiritual condition. Out of the four, only one lasts. Jesus goes on to explain why in verses 10-20. Through looking at these four kinds of people, see which one you want to be like. #1 - The Hardened Heart (3-4) What happens to this person (14-15)? ________________________________________ Bottom Line: He doesnt listen to the Word. #2 - The Shallow Heart (5-6) Why doesnt this person last (16-17)? ________________________________________ Bottom Line: He has no roots. #3 - The Divided Heart (7) What keeps this person from a commitment to God (18-19)? ______________________ Bottom Line: He has no loyalty. #4 - The Fruitful Heart (8-9) What is so different about this heart (20)? _____________________________________ Bottom Line: He allows the Word to rule in his life. Four hearts. One seed (the Word). Four different responses. Four different results. So which one is going to describe you? Which kind of heart will you have? And how will you make sure that you keep going strong?
So it is with you. Your power to continue on in your Christian life does not come from you or depend upon you. You have a "faucet", but you must make sure it is connected to the spiritual "pipeline" each day. Your power comes from above, and to stay "airborne", you must rely on His resources, not your own. And that is something you must choose to do every day. How are you going to make sure you keep on spending time with God each day? ______________________________________________________________________ Close by spending some time in prayer, asking God to help you have a fruitful heart through your daily time spent with Him. Write a short note of commitment to the Lord, telling Him about your desire to keep going strong in your walk with Him. You might also want to ask a friend to hold you accountable to your devotions, and help you make this habit a part of your life. Summary - To keep going spiritually, I must stay connected each day to Christ and draw my strength from Him.
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2. I need to keep my walk with God simple and "uncluttered". 3. I can worship God by living a life that brings honor to Him. 4. Prayer is my way of talking to God and having fellowship with Him. 5. Because of Jesus, I can go to God in prayer . . . anytime! 6. To communicate with God, I must avoid all roadblocks to prayer. 7. One of the greatest things I can do for someone else is to faithfully pray for them. 8. Seeing what God says about the future of the world helps me live for Him in the present. 9. As long as I please God, it doesnt matter who I displease. 10. Though my beliefs may cost me, I can stand the strongest when I stand with others. 11. When I stand for Christ, He stands with me! 12. When I face problems, I can be comforted, knowing that all Christians go through the very same struggles. Im not alone! 13. When I face problems, I can run to the Lord for strength and safety. 14. When I am confused about life and hurting, I should share my struggles with a Christian friend. 15. Keeping my priorities in order will bring happiness and Gods blessing into my life. 16. I must never give up on following Christ, no matter what happens! 17. By committing yourself to spiritual growth, you can have a faith of your own. 18. I am not the person I used to be. God has made me into a new creation! 19. By joining together, me and my Christian friends can have a huge influence for God on my campus. 20. I can leave a legacy of faith behind me! 21. I should never stop bringing others to Jesus. 22. Jesus demands all of me if I want to call myself His disciple. 23. Its a serious thing to follow Christ, so I must count the cost. 24. If I hear and obey Christs words, I can face any storm life throws at me. 25. To prevent becoming a spiritual "phony", I must seek to know Jesus in a personal way each day. 26. I shouldnt hesitate to have faith in God because He can be trusted with every area of my life. 27. I must pay attention to my "little" choices because every decision I make is important. 28. I must consider the consequences of my choices before I make them. 29. As I make choices, I need to allow wisdom from Gods Word to guide me. 30. In order to live a life thats different, I must seek to please God in all I do. 31. Jesus offers me a relationship that is extremely hip and truly satisfies. 32. Jesus satisfies me and meets my every need. 33. Through Jesus, I find my way to Happiness, Hope and Heaven. 34. By depending on Gods strength, I can live above my circumstances. 35. Gods love for me is totally faithful and infinite. 36. God loves me . . . even though I dont deserve it. 37. Gods love satisfies and fulfills me like nothing else can. 38. Gods love for me is shown through His creation and constant care for me. 39. I need Gods love daily to shine through me to others. 40. The most important thing about my Christian friendships is that we share a common faith in Jesus Christ. 41. I desperately need my Christian family in order to survive. 42. One day I will be re-united with my loved ones in Heaven. 43. I need to cherish my friends and family now while I have them. 44. I need to allow Christ to control my tongue so that I speak kind words to others. 45. To keep going spiritually, I must stay connected each day to Christ and draw my strength from Him. |
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